You gotta have a “What the Hell” attitude in the kitchen because you can always order pizza! Have you ever tried something big or new and failed — with an audience?  It’s one kind of failure when you and maybe your family know about it, but it is very different when your failure is exposed to others outside your realm of secret keepers.  You can try something new in the kitchen in front of family and fail – no big deal.  But inviting a group over and having a cooking fiasco in front of them?  No Way!  This is why many people don’t have dinner parties.  Fear of failure in…